Love is a phenomenal
the world we are in is yet to unravel. Experience is the best Teacher but we
don’t have to learn from our own experience because some experiences can never
be recovered from, like I do tell my sisters I don’t want you guys to learn in a
hard way. That brings me to the question why do ladies want to be in a
relationship all because she doesn’t want to be ‘left out of train’
I got talking to
my neighbour, Tara, over the weekend then I asked her about her bf. She said ‘he
is fine, but he flirts around.” I asked her, ‘how did you know’. She said, “cos
he tried luring me to sleep with him the last time we met for the first time alone
in his house and I had to jet out because I told him is not gonna happen.” With
a little rage on her face she said, “but he promised me no sex before marriage
since he is a Christian”. Even at that, I had this inclination that he sleeps
around, but I still accepted his proposal then.
What amazes me
most was she gave her mum his name to pray on…which is so common among
Christian ladies. I asked her why did you give your mum his name to pray on
when you know he isn’t the kind of man u want to date let alone spend the rest
of your life with. She responded “I want to have someone am dating ‘cos I
really feel out of place when people are talking about their boo…
That’s a problem
that has eaten deep into our society…Ladies
feel out of place when they don’t have a man to call their own and some
have this mentality…maybe I’m not beautiful enough…if you found yourself in
this category, please check out yourself. Ask yourself these: have I been a
good friend? Do I have a sassy dress sense? Am I refined or crude et al.
The fact is this,
it takes a friendly person to build a healthy relationship.
We are going to
enjoy talking different shades of relationship I come about any day or time
with you on this blog and I will like to have your opinion back…cos it takes
two to tango.
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